Sunday, November 30, 2008

Trip Report…. the venue search... part 2


Tuscany Wine Estate – No
Atmosphere: ***
Style: Very Tuscan
Size: 80 - 100 max
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Comments: Size is a big factor here as the venue is very small. While the venue is saying 100 people, it is currently set up for 80 and there is not enough space for people to pull out the chairs!

Audury Wilkerson – No Unfortunately they no longer allow receptions on the property only ceremonies & photo sessions.

Hope Estate – No Atmosphere: ***
Style: Wine barrel storage room
Size: 80 - 100 max
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Comments: While I am sure photo’s would be great, it’s really really claustrophobic and the barrels that line the walls are huge – it’s actually quite scary and very dark!

Catersifeld House - No
Atmosphere: **
Style: Country Farm house / estate
Size: 80 max in function room or marquee
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Comments: Property was nice, but not what we were looking for.


Saturday, November 29, 2008

Trip Report…. the venue search... part 1


We had a blast on our road trip (despite the hail storm) and we got to see our entire “A” list but didn’t have the chance to see the “B” list venues.

Notes & photos of each venue to help narrow down the one!

Tamburlaine - No
Atmosphere: **
Style: Gentleman’s lodge, space was big but very “function room” looking
Size: 200 max
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Comments: Not a great deal of character except for the lake. Disabled access/facilities were very average and the mixed eclectic artwork that filled the blue walls was very taste specific.

Hungerford Hill – Possibility
Atmosphere: **
Style: Clean, very contemporary
Size: 130 max
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Comments: A little to contemporary & formal, so doesn’t fit with the style I was hoping for, however it can accommodate a larger group.
Event manager/planner did not show for our meeting !

The Vintage - Possibility
Atmosphere: **
Style: Mixed & slapdash, building is an odd awkward shape at the edge of the property.
Size: 120 max
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Comments: Dance floor area is at the side of a building with no cover and can’t be used if it rains?? Event planner was quite short, inflexible and seemed uninterested. On the whole the overall feeling was not a very positive one.


Peterson’s champagne House – Possibility
Atmosphere: ****
Style: Classic, old sandstone building with modern amenities - lots of character
Size: 106 max
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Comment: We both loved the atmosphere & décor at Peterson’s, lots of character & charm. Very similar to the barrel room, stone building, vineyards and lake. Size could be an issue, however if all else fails they do have an area in the middle of the vineyard where we could have a marquee if REALLY needed.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Road Trip .......searching for a new venue !


After the drama that unfolded with our original venue, we had no option but to cancel. It did take several interesting phone calls before they agreed to refund our deposit (no apology mind you, just an admission that “perhaps” we had been “misinformed” not “mislead” ) but thankfully it’s all over and we can put it behind us now.

As no one (especially me) wants to revisit all the drama & heartache we went through with those vendors, & see all the hard work we put in, only to be wasted. I have removed our initial planning posts that involved those venues, but everything will stay the same.

So moving on, we are going on a road trip this weekend to find a new and even better venue. We are a little wiser and a lot more prepared, so hopefully won’t fall for the same sales tricks & plays on words that have plagued us till now.

We only have a limited amount of time and a lot of places to see so we have narrowed down the must see list in order and then we also have a backup list if needed. In order the must see list is as follows (remembering that our 1st choice the gorgeous Barrel Room at Peppers Creek is fully booked (although we were able to secure the chapel) and Peppers Guest House & Sebel are a dead set NO)

Tuscany Wine Estate
Audury Wilkerson
Hope Estate
Peterson’s champagne House
Tamburlaine
Hungerford Hill
The Vintage
Catersifeld House

Hopefully we won’t need it but our back up list is…

Margan – not convinced on this one so it’s moving to the back up list
The Veranda Restaurant
Hunter resort
Tulloch

Ideally I would love to find something similar to the Peppers Creek Barrel Room



Friday, November 14, 2008

My Ultimate Planning List


Today the official countdown can begin 356 days to the wedding!!!

With so many things to remember, I have been searching for a super checklist.

Surprisingly I haven’t found many “two destination weddings, on different continents in two weeks checklists” so I have started my own.

As we have changed our Disney plans around, I have taken all the USA planning out of the checklist and will add it back in shortly. So this is looking pretty good as our Hunter checklist to start with, so with exactly 365 days to go I need to get through the following ...

 
12 Months - 0/24 completed
§ Set Wedding Date
§ Set preliminary budget
§ Visit ceremony sites
§ Research and visit reception locations
§ Meet with different officiates
§ Decide whether you want to have a band or DJ
§ Think about a color scheme or wedding theme
§ Meet with and book a Day of Coordinator (DOC)
§ Have your engagement ring appraised and Insured
§ Begin to think about bridal party
§ Groom – begin to think about bridal party
§ Start shopping for Wedding Dress ideas
§ Sent out engagement announcements
§ Engagement Party
§ Create Wedding website
§ Attend Bridal Shows/Showcases
§ Make a list of vendors to contact
§ Prepare preliminary guest list
§ Set final budget
§ Select a ceremony location
§ Select a reception location
§ Select an officiate
§ Select a photographer
§ Select a videographer
§ Organise accommodation for guests
§ Organise accommodation for us
§ Finalise color scheme or wedding theme
§ Think about centerpieces & bouquets
§ Meet with different bands or DJ’s and select one
§ Select and ask bridal party members
§ Groom – select and ask groomsmen and best man
§ Order & send Save the Date’s (along with guest information)
§ Think about "if we want gift register"
§ Begin your honeymoon research


9 Months - 0/23 completed
§ Select a florist (bring pictures and floral ideas to appointment)
§ Think about number & type of cars
§ Give maid of honor the guest list for your bridal shower
§ Send bridesmaid newsletter
§ Create gift registry
§ Book your honeymoon
§ Finalise guest list
§ Select and order invitations
§ Purchase stamps for invitations (have them weighed)
§ Purchase envelope seals – DIY Project
§ Order mother of the bride/groom dresses
§ Give all vendor information to DOC (address, contracts, phone numbers, etc.)
§ Purchase tiara/headpiece/hairpins
§ Order veil
§ Engagement shoot
§ Purchase wedding insurance
§ Purchase table cameras
§ Order your wedding gown
§ Order bridesmaids gowns
§ Order flower girl dresses
§ Schedule Laser Hair Removal appointment
 

6 Months - 0/21 completed
§ Select & book cars
§ Schedule hair trials
§ Schedule makeup trials
§ Arrange guest transportation
§ Buy your shower outfit
§ Check passports
§ Update your registry and check for any discontinued items
§ Shop for and order wedding rings
§ Purchase wedding day jewelry
§ Purchase cake serving set
§ Purchase toasting flutes
§ Purchase ring pillow
§ Begin taking dancing lessons
§ Start facials
§ Select and order wedding cake
§ Plan ceremony (writing vows, music selections, readings, etc.)
 

4 Months - 0/25 completed
§ Order bridal shower thank you cards
§ Purchase ceremony decorations (pew bows, personalized aisle runner, etc.)
§ Shop for and order favors
§ Order favor tags or custom labels for favors
§ Start wedding gown fittings
§ Decide what kind of bustle you want (one point, two point, French, etc.)
§ Purchase all undergarments for your gown including a slip, stocking, garters, etc.
§ Purchase throw away garter
§ Purchase wedding day shoes
§ Purchase comfortable shoes for reception (slippers, sneakers, flip flops, etc.)
§ Purchase bridal party shoes and have them dyed if needed
§ Purchase a guest book or frame for sign in picture
§ Purchase cake topper
§ Schedule ceremony rehearsal
§ Book rehearsal dinner location
§ Order rehearsal dinner invitations
§ Decide where you want to take photos after the ceremony
§ Plan back up locations for ceremony and photo sessions in case of rain
§ Purchase flower girl basket
§ Order monogrammed napkins and matches
 

3 Months - 0/26 completed
§ Attend your bridal shower
§ Send out bridal shower thank you cards
§ Buy any ribbon or packaging you will need to wrap wedding favors
§ Purchase bridal party gifts
§ Purchase bridal party jewellery
§ Purchase flower girl jewellery
§ Purchase flower girl tiara
§ Purchase flower girl gifts
§ Purchase ring bearer gifts
§ Purchase parent gifts
§ Meet with officiant and go over ceremony in detail
§ Purchase or make ceremony programs
§ Send out invitations (don’t forget to have them hand cancelled)
§ Groom - order tuxes and have all groomsmen measured
§ Groom – buy groomsmen and best man gifts
§ Meet with reception location and finalize menu
§ Order grooms cake
§ Send out rehearsal dinner invitations
§ Purchase items for slipper basket (slippers, baskets, ribbon, tags)
§ Schedule hair color appointment for week before wedding
§ Meet with florist and finalize floral details - how many centerpieces, bouquets, boutonnieres, place card table arrangement. Also design and types of flowers and view/approve sample centerpiece
§ Order table linens and chair covers
§ Organise Popcorn Bar (glass jars, popcorn, bags, scoops & signage)
§ Purchase items for place cards (votives, votive holders, vellum and vellum tape for votive place cards)


2 Months - 0/33 completed
§ Arrange for Photo shoot in Disney World
§ Purchase Disney Honeymoon add ons / check Honeymoon register
§ Shop for honeymoon clothes
§ Shop for items that will go in out of town gift bags
§ Wrap and finish all favors
§ Make petal cones & ceremony packs
§ Select first dance song, bridal party entrance songs, mother/father dance songs, cake cutting songs, etc. and give to Band or DJ
§ Create must play and do not play list and give to Band or DJ
§ Finalize seating arrangements
§ Prepare must take photo list and give to photographer
§ Make final vendor appointments
§ Host bridesmaid’s lunch
§ Make or order menus for table
§ Make or order table numbers
§ Purchase stands for table numbers
§ Break in wedding day shoes
§ Make sure you have something, old, new, borrowed and blue
§ Give MOH list of people for Bachelorette party
§ Groom – give list of guys you wanted invited to your Bachelor party to your best man
§ Get together pictures you want displayed at reception hall (baby pictures, engagement pictures, family wedding photos, etc.)
§ Buy frames for pictures
§ Purchase or make card box or money bag for gifts
§ Purchase baskets for programs
§ Purchase petal cone basket
§ Purchase all items for bathroom baskets
§ Have second dress fitting
§ Groom – start weekly tanning sessions
§ Have teeth whitened
§ Buy a wedding gift for h2b
§ Groom – have a discussion with your best man about his responsibilities
§ Groom – buy a wedding gift for your b2b
 

1 Month - 0/13 completed
§ Finalise wedding day hair ( also MOB, MOH and bridesmaids)
§ Finalise wedding day make up ( also MOB, MOH and bridesmaids)
§ Shop for honeymoon necessities such as sunscreen, bug spray, beach towels, etc.
§ Organise DOC to have midnight snack delivered to our room
§ Prepare out of town welcome bags
§ Make place cards for reception
§ Meet with DOC to go over day of timeline
§ Call guest's who have not RSVP'd
§ Attend Bachelorette party
§ Groom – attend Bachelor Party
§ Obtain marriage license
§ Prepare bathroom baskets
§ Have final dress fitting
§ Arrange boarding for scratchie
§ Honeymoon - organise DOC & travel agent to make call to check for honeymoon" reservations
§ Make sure your engagement ring and wedding band are on your home insurance policy
§ Call Disney Florist & have Disney welcome pack sent to room
 

2 Weeks - 0/13 completed
§ Have final hair color appointment for wedding
§ Meet with and give final payment to all vendors (go over all details and day of timeline with them for the wedding day)
§ Confirm honeymoon reservations and travel arrangements
§ Arrange for transportation to the airport
§ Prepare day of emergency kit
§ Prepare any speeches or toasts for rehearsal dinner
§ Designate someone to overnight your bouquet for floral preservation
§ Give bridal party wedding day packs
§ Groom – email groomsmen and best man with wedding day timeline and all info needed for day of
§ Wrap bridal party gifts
§ Write thank you card to all bridesmaids and maid of honour
§ Groom – arrange breakfast for groomsmen and best man for wedding day
§ Designate someone to pack up all items from reception hall after the wedding to take home
 

Week Before - 0/4 completed
§ Give reception location final count/seating chart of people attending
§ Pack for honeymoon
§ Make sure programs, menus, place cards, etc. are all completed
§ Have rings cleaned for wedding day
§ Have a massage to relax
 
 
§ A Few Days Before - 0/7 completed
§ Prepare and drop off box to the reception hall with accessories such as guest book, table cameras, toasting glasses, cake topper, menus, favors, etc
§ Prepare and drop off OOT boxes to Hotels
§ Place tips for each vendor in envelopes
§ Pick up wedding gown from bridal salon
§ Make sure wedding gown and veil are pressed and have no wrinkles
§ Arrange for breakfast for day of when you are getting ready
§ Go for waxing appointment
§ If you did not go for weekly tanning go for airbrush tanning
 

Day Before - 0/13 completed
§ Go get manicure and pedicure with bridesmaids
§ Make sure you have all bags and items for honeymoon ready (passport, airline tickets, travelers checks, etc.)
§ Attend ceremony rehearsal
§ Bring all items to ceremony location (unity candle, programs, cry packs, etc.)
§ Attend rehearsal dinner
§ Bring camera to rehearsal dinner
§ Lay out all wedding items (jewellery, shoes, stockings, dress, veil, tiara/headpiece/hairpins, handbag with powder and lipstick, etc.)
§ Pack wedding night bag with lingerie and wedding dress bag to pack up gown
§ Groom – pack a bag for the wedding night
§ Groom – give rings to best man
§ Groom – give tip envelopes to best man to be handed out
§ Groom – get your hair cut and a manicure
§ Groom – go with groomsmen & best man to pick up suits.
 

Wedding Day - 0/2 completed
§ Put petals in petal cones for ceremony
§ RELAX, HAVE A GREAT DAY
 

Day After - 0/4 completed
§Bouquet is sent for floral preservation
§ Put top of wedding cake in freezer
§ Groom – make sure all tuxes get back to tuxedo shop
§ Take table cameras to be printed
 

2 Weeks After - 0/4 completed
§ Have gown preserved
§ Begin name change process
§ Have favourite wedding photo framed
§ Send honeymoon pictures & song selections to videographer
 

That's definitely a lot of planning to get through in 12 months .....